It's been so many years since I adopted Shylo, who you all knew as
Jennie, and I just had to send you an update. At the time I
welcomed her into my home, I was caring for my Mom, who was dying of
Dementia. She only wanted to be awake for 2 hours at a time, so
it made caring for her needs and feeding her
quite limited. We had always had a dog when I was a child so I
thought it would give Mom another interest, and reason to get up each
day. When Mom was waking each day I'd give her some dog cookies
to have in her hands in bed. Shylo soon came to understand when
Mom was waking up she was going to get a treat, so she'd always be
sitting quietly wagging her tail as Mom slowly greeted the day.
This gave Mom a happy little friend to be waiting for her at her
bedside and they bonded beautifully.
She
also bonded with me from the first day, because I was the one who was
always awake to feed her, groom her and cuddle with her. During
the stress of Mom's care she always made me smile and laugh every day.
As part of Mom's illness she would at times have brief TIA Strokes,
and during them lose the ability to speak. One day during one of
these events, myself, a Nurse, a Home Care Worker, and a Bath Lady
were all gathered around Mom's bed,
helping her as best we could under the desperate state of her health.
Right at that moment Shylo did something she had never done before or
since. She pushed her way in between all of us, put her paws up
on the bed, leaned way in, and licked Mom's face 3 times. In
that exact moment, like magic Mom's stroke stopped instantly, and she
said 'Hi Shylo'. It truly was a miracle!
Mom had short term memory loss so every day when she discovered we had
Shylo, she was happy all over again just like Christmas morning. She
would gently pet her head, and every time she felt her ears, she'd
always say with great excitement, " Oh they are just like velvet!".
She experienced this same happy discovery, day after day, week after
week, month after month. Every time it happened it was just as
thrilling for her as the first time, because she had no way to
remember the previous day. Mom finally passed away on June 8,
2009, and my other reason for adopting Shylo was the sadness and
loneliness I would suffer once that day came. It was the best
decision I ever made. Even though it's been very difficult after
her death, Shylo makes me laugh and smile every day.
She has her own bed beside mine on the second floor, and another one
under the kitchen table. She enjoys sleeping in both, usually
starting the night beside me, and going down to her own bed in the
kitchen during the night. She loves to sit beside me, or lay at
my feet when I'm watching TV, always with her side or paw touching me.
She gives me kisses, rests her head on my knee or foot all the time,
and I'm teaching her how to say I LOVE YOU. She doesn't bark at
all unless I'm trying to get her to speak to say I LOVE YOU. She
has permanent Happy Tail and is the happiest part of every day. No
matter what I might be doing she sits watching and supervising the
entire time, whether I'm making dinner or cutting the grass. She
truly is my best friend, and I love her more every day! Thank
you so much for her, she means everything to me.
Sincerely,
Paul
Update July '12
Well, my baby girl Shylo has developed a cancerous tumor on her right
front leg. My Vet at
Bridlewood
Animal Hospital has sent me to a Cancer Specialist in
Ottawa
named Dr. J. Liptak, at
Alta
Vista Animal Hospital. So tomorrow she's going to have it
surgically removed, and until they send it to the lab there's no way
to know the percentage of recurrence. Fortunately it is quite
localized and hasn't spread anywhere else.
So if any of you remember her, please say a prayer for her. She
means everything to me and I can't imagine my life without her.
Because I'm alone in this world, she's my only Christmas present, my
only
Valentine, my only Easter egg, my only shamrock, my only Trick or
Treater, and my only Birthday present. All this she gives to me,
just because I love her.
All my best to you,
Paul
Update September '12
I just want you to know that Shylo is still thriving and doing fine.
Much to my amazement, she's recovered from her surgery and although
she still has a tiny tumor in one breast, it isn't growing. The
site where the big tumor on her leg was removed has healed
beautifully, and there is no sign of recurrence. I know she
technically still has cancer, but to my complete astonishment she's
climbing stairs, running, playing, eating, talking, and saying I wove
you, as well as giving me kisses. She has no idea there is
anything wrong, and in doing so, is just loving every moment of life.
Like she always has. Perhaps this lesson is her greatest gift to
me. Having just lost my best friend from High School to cancer
this week, and watching Shylo, she's reminding me to be happy in the
moment, and try not to worry too much about what may come tomorrow.
I love her so much, and I'm still so grateful to have her a part of my
life.
Sincerely,
Paul
Update July '13
Well it's another hot summer morning, a year after her surgery, and
I'm happy to announce Shylo is eating, playing, and thriving like a
puppy. There is no sign of the cancer returning on her leg at
all.
Her affection, kind demeanor, and optimistic approach to me and all
the people she meets, endures as always. She never barks, except
when we play "Who's a Good Puppy?" and when I say "I love you", she'll
answer "WHY WOFF WUU" in Husky whiny woffs.
She's the best little friend I've ever had and I love her more than
life it self.
Thank you so much for loving her and caring for her till I found her
with you. Your efforts are still bringing happiness to a 62 year
old single man.
She is now and always will be my Baby Girl, which means everything to
a man with no children to love him back.
All our thanks with warm regards,
Paul & Shylo
Update
August '15
So as another summer draws to a close, I just had to let you know
Shylo is still well and doing fine after all these years. She was
called Jennie by your shelter because she came to you from another
shelter and had no history. She survived cancer 3 summers ago, and is
doing very well. I'm so grateful to have her in my life, and we love
each other very much.
Thank you again for bringing us together.
Love from Shylo and Paul.
Update
September '15
So Shylo's cancer came back in the same spot on her elbow. I noticed
the old incision starting to swell, about the time I had her
other warts removed. So yesterday Dr. Liptak performed the second
surgery on her elbow and gave her a mastectomy for the other tumour
they found right after the first operation 3 years ago. He had to do a
flap to close the wound because the tumour was attached to the skin.
She hates being on meds but she has to be because it was major
surgery, and she's got to be in a lot of pain right now. The white
towel in bed on her wound is an ice pack. I have to catch her when
she's sleeping, or it doesn't stay on long.
I have no fear about her recovery now that the tumours are gone, and
due to her demeanour, prior to this bump in the road, I predict she
will bounce back in a short period of time. It will just be
frustrating for her because of how she hates the affect the medication
has on her equilibrium. She's wearing the vest to prevent licking,
although with the wart removal she had stitches and never licked at
all. However these need better protection. She still isn't hungry but
I bet by tomorrow some chicken will do the trick. She's such a
wonderful, loyal, loving, playful pup, and she's going to come through
this just fine. She did before and was well worth that effort, and now
she's happier, more playful and affectionate than she ever has been.
So I simply had to try and give her the years of happiness she so
deserves.
All the best from Shylo & Paul
Update
November '15
So as I told you before, Shylo's cancer came back this fall. I took
her back to Dr. Liptak at the Alta Vista Animal Hospital, and he was
happy to operate on her to remove the tumour as he had previously
removed 3 years ago, as well as another tumour growing on her breast,
so he did 2 for 1 since he had her under the anaesthetic. The
mastectomy went well, but when he went in to get the tumour on her
elbow, he discovered it had not only attached itself to her skin, but
there was another tumour growing underneath the first one. Therefore
he had to remove some tissue as well as all her skin in an area of
about 3 1/2 inches x 9 inches. Then he cut a large skin flap from her
side of the same size and relocated it over her elbow to cover the
huge wound.
We returned home, and over the next 2 weeks of recovery there was a
complication because the lower 1 1/2 inch of the flap died, in spite
of hot and cold compresses. Dr. Liptak had warned me it could happen,
but I had no idea it would ooze fluid continuously and smell like
rotting meat. It was such a horrible odour, and there was laundry
every day for towels and bedding, not just for the fluid but also the
Incontinence which she usually gets after being under anaesthetic. Dr.
Liptak suggested I could gently bath the wound in warm water with a
paper towel applied softly to wipe the stinking fluid that had dried
all over her leg. Unfortunately the second time I did so the bottom of
the wound opened a little, and cups of the pink fluid started flowing
all over the kitchen floor. I quickly wrapped and taped a tea towel
around it and rushed her back to the
Alta
Vista Animal Hospital where they covered the wound with a dressing and
started her on antibiotics. The dressing had to be changed every 2
days but when I went back in I could smell the rotting under the
bandage, and when they removed it the wound was at its worst, so it
then had to smell and remain open to the air and the apartment. Pee-U
it really smelled like rotting meat as well as the apartment.
Then
she went back in the following week for corrective surgery to cut off
the dead skin and then pull the remaining skin down very tight and
close with new sutures. He was able to do so except for the bottom 1/4
inch of the wound, as it had to heal from the inside out. Back home
again on 2 more weeks of antibiotics and still a little oozing. She
also stayed in the hospital overnight with each surgery, before I
could bring her home. After 2 weeks we went back to the hospital to
have her stitches removed and they discovered they could only remove
the ones at the top of the wound, because the bottom was still not
fully closed. So we returned home again with another 2 weeks of
antibiotics, and 3 stitches still in the bottom of the flap.
With the original wart mass removal that I had done at Pretoria Animal
Hospital
at the beginning of September to remove warts from her two front paws
and on her back, that's when I first noticed the mass on her elbow
regrowing. She had now had had 3 surgeries in 6 weeks, and for any pup
let alone a senior dog, that's a lot of stress to go through, not to
mention living with the cone on her head as well throughout. Shylo was
so good because she never got cranky, and once on her antibiotics she
wanted to play to get her treats again like always. Because she didn't
know how serious it all was she was happy to be home with her Daddy,
and went right on with her life. What a lesson for us to follow. At
this point I knew she was feeling much better because she started
pushing me around the apartment with her cone, saying get a move on
Dad, life's waiting for us to play. Again we went back home with
stitches in, and after two more weeks and more antibiotics to have the
stitches removed, but again returned home with more antibiotics and
another 2 weeks of healing because it wasn't closed yet. Finally
yesterday I took her in and the last 3 stitches came out, and the cone
came off. She's such a happy doggy now. Her prognosis is excellent
because all cancers were self contained, and she will be able to go on
and have a better time through the last third of her life.
I'm
so grateful to Dr. Liptak and the entire team at the Alta Vista
Hospital
because they were there for us throughout the whole ordeal and were a
tower
of strength to us both. Because Shylo picks up on my mood, I had to
keep my brain in a positive state of mind, so she wouldn't pick up on
my sincere worry about her survival. However I was able to maintain
the illusion all was well, and not cause her stress. But Lordy the
stress I felt weighed a ton. So now we're safe and sound and back home
as happy as always. This year I turn 65 and Shylo survived cancer
twice now, so we are going to have the best Christmas ever !!!! Thank
you to everyone who sent their kind well-wishes to Shylo during her
long ordeal, because I believe all our prayers were answered, and your
support was invaluable.
Our kind good wishes to all from Paul and Shylo Xoxoxo
Shylo has passed away and is now remembered on our
Rainbow Bridge page.
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